Three key areas to stimulate a woman’s sexuality.

July 15, 2009

Have you ever come away from sex thinking maybe she didn’t quite go over the top. It’s a very common problem. Many women never ever reach that delirious peak that leaves a man satisfied that he’s done a good job.

So what’s the key to unlock all the stores of peak sensuality in a woman?

Regions!

Wait a minute, don’t we touch and caress every part of our bodies during sex? So what are you talking about?

Simple, there are certain erotic regions that need to be touched and handled at the right time and at the right intensity for all a woman’s lust and passion to come bursting out.

Consider a door; you only need to insert your key into the keyhole in order to open the door. You don’t run the key over the surface of the door; you only need to place it in a small part, the keyhole, turn it at the right force and your door opens.

That’s very much how a woman is. Discover those keyholes and bam! An overflow of passion consumes the discoverer.

So what are they anyway?

The first is the insides of her hips.

When you’re through with caressing every part of her body, advance to the insides of her thighs, gently run your lips all over, then massage her carefully with your hands. I guarantee you won’t continue for long. She’ll be screaming for you to get started with the real thing.

Next, move to the g-spot.

Every part of a woman’s vagina is sensitive to touch, but not all parts are equally sensitive. You could play around all you like and never get her to climax.

The key again is the keyhole analogy.

You need to locate the spot of maximum sensitivity. And that’s the g-spot

Its about two inches on the lower part of her vagina.

But how do you locate it.

Simple. Run your hands through her already moist vagina very gently. When you hit the spot, she’ll suddenly jerk and her heart rate would suddenly go up. When you continue, you’ll notice her getting more and more out of control.

Caressing this spot at the right intensity for about 4-7 minutes will almost always result in orgasm.

And now, the grand finale.

Enter the clitoris.

The clitoris is to a woman what a penis is to a man. Just as the penis can be caressed to the point of ejaculation, so also can the clitoris be caressed until orgasm.

Some women will not even climax without clitoral stimulation.

So how do you work the clitoris right?

First, start with your tongue. The tongue is the most sensitive part of a human being. And when it meets the most sensitive sexual organ of a woman, the result is pure ecstasy.

After the tongue, then your fingers. Gently run your fingers over it and establish the right rhythm for your mate. Some women want it slowly and seductively while others prefer fast and furious.

Before long twisting and writhing in heavenly pleasure. Then you can finally ease yourself in.

Remember the keyhole analogy, apply it judiciously and all your every sex encounter will be a thing to be remembered.

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3 Powerful turnoffs.

July 15, 2009

You both are in the mood and each is separately dreaming of being slaughtered in the others erotic fangs. You get your clothes off and after about half an hour nothing seems to be happening.

You then begin to wonder if he/she is truly the one.

Men are almost always satisfied with most types of sex, but with women it is way different.

You might be guilty of any of these crimes, and the sooner you acquit yourself, the better.

One, no emotional build up.

We all need some sort of stimulus whether emotional or physical in order to get turned on. With women, it’s 10 times as important.

To most women, foreplay and oral sex are more important; mark the words, more important than penetration. You have to take all your time to open her erotic gates in order for the grand finale to be truly grand.

Work through her body with your hands and lips. Unleash your tongue freely on her breasts and the tip of her nipples. Caress the insides of her thighs. Run your finger over the bottom of her abdomen. Suck on her clitoris until all her sex juices begin to flow, the watch her inflamed passion spiral out of control.

Crime number 2.

Not enough time.

A woman’s sexuality is so similar to a leak on a big ship. The second the leak appears is definitely not the second the ship sinks but…given enough time, the ship will become overwhelmed by water and finally sink.

Just the act of foreplay alone begins to unlock all her erotic juices. Oral sex is like stepping on the throttle. When you finally enter penetration, all the arousal locks are bulldozed out of the way.

But this requires time and concentration

Lots of concentration.

The good news is paying the price is well worth the rewards.

Crime number 3. Wrong rhythm.

Sex s heavily a game of touch and contact. You win every time, by touching the right places at the right intensity. Every woman has her own erotic frequency – and the sooner a man understands this and flows with it, the sweeter the sex becomes.

During foreplay carefully observe her reactions. Does she enjoy when a lot of pressure is applied on the nipples or she starts shifting uneasily? Does she flinch when you go too fast on her clitoris or she begins to lose control?

Does your slow thrusting bore her or does going really fast pump out all the adrenalin in her reserves.

You need to understand this on a deeper level or your sex life might just be one of discontent and frustration.

Getting her to like you is one thing, getting her to surrender is quite another.


Three key super-erotic pre-events.

July 15, 2009

Why is it that so many men never seem to satisfy their women sexually? Why is it so many women, way too many women get turned off before the grand finale?

Fact is, men and women have very different psychological turn onns, react differently to different sexual stimuli.

To make matters worse, neither possesses an intuitive understanding of what satisfies the other in sex.

Meaning?

If we do what comes naturally to us during sex. The result will always be poor, wretched and abysmal.

Maybe, we may enjoy our own part, after all we enjoy what is natural to us but our partners will always feel cheated, slighted and eventually disgusted over time.

So how can you steadily and surely build up a woman’s emotion till she gets to the grand finale.

Understand foreplay.

This is not some quick running of hands through her bosom, hips and hair. You have to hit the right spots at the right frequency in order to start opening her passion locks.

The right spots?

Yes. The nipples, the insides of her thighs, below her abdomen and around the pubic region.

While she’ll definitely be grateful to you for running you4r hands over all her body, nothing builds anticipation in a woman like dancing around her most erogenous regions. And anticipation is a mighty hug\e piece n the puzzle of unlocking a woman’s eroticism.

Get a woman inflamed with anticipation then you’ve unlocked the doors to all her dirtiest erotic fantasies.

Next. Take it a notch higher.

Enter oral sex.

Oral sex can be a disaster or an unforgettable encounter depending on how you play your cards.

Two things are key here.

1. Understanding the places to go.

2. Understanding how deeply or slowly or intensely a particular woman wants to be touched.

While every part of a woman’s vagina will gladly respond to a titillating tongue massage, the main place you should befriend is the clitoris. Take time to run your lips over it. Move up and down slowly over it and try to establish the right rhythm to suit your partner. Too slow and some women get tired of waiting and just turn off. Too fast and some women will consider it highly uncomfortable.

The key is discovering the right rhythm and intensity for your woman and working at it till she flies off in erotic ecstasy.